Friday 2 March 2012
Fugazi Cops
Da Vinci was a great visionary. We buy into his genius. I believe that each of us (I mean each & all), in a small way we can help to create & be involved with great contemporary projects. There's the STAR in us all! God bless you all! I must go now, but I ' ll be back.
So U think, How we Gonna get Billy his Bones?
B's bot 2 clever but )he's sound? YEAH. This was when " The Big Gardner Grass-Up where everybody got away-Boston Mail. Then they got the ransom demand for the painting, yeah? OK, next up? con man sends in wrong paint chips yet it looked like it was Vermeer? WTF?
Mafia was involved. Keep'emPeeled. Sent with Writer.
Sunday 26 February 2012
Do U 'ave copy-paste-ego-dEzEZ?
Nunc Est Bibendum
Friday 24 February 2012
Transactional Analysis-Mind Games-Ego&Id
Parent-Adult-Child Control/Nurture-neg/pos approachs.
TheCon+Gimmick=Responses>Switch>Xup>Pay-Off
Or The Drama Triangle-Persecutor-Victim-Rescuer
Beware "Yes, but", after they ask U 4 advice & so on.
People play mind-games all the time. U have to be aware @allTimes! They want Attention & Affirmation of Status. Need 4 Approval. Drama. Be aware of "games". Discounts=sweeping statements that distort reality. Gimmix=Ur own irrational needs that get U involved. So identify when a game begins & learn the moves. Then U can bow out by refusing to play, denying Ur Gimmix. Look out for that "feeling of unease"-it means you're in a game. Try to point out you are aware what's happening. Always respond as adult-never child.
Get Out-if they keep playing after U told them NO! ,then unplug from relationship.
Find their needs & deprive! Starve them.
GIMMIX- yeah! Ur krapola. If U know what Ur Prob's were. U could fix UrsElf. Honest Introspection. Think/Act Ur way out! U Be in Control, not others.
* I Must Be (blanc)-self expectations can be used against U, R U being realistic? Must can read-can try to be/if I want it so. So, Avoid "skewy" motivations like- being reasonable or helpful. These situations can be used to snare U in a trap. Get outta there Dude!
*The Partner who Complains about Everything Game-
" P wants U not to talk about it. Later P says U want to force it outta me, when U were fine. So P freaks out & says U don't lUv me anymore. See anything similar? The only way for U to help P would be if U were a mutant; a Telepath(2BsUre).
* Without Me, the Family would fall apart Game-
OK, say U died(God forbid)-? Now, next-time F asks U 4 a favor, say"NO". Observe what happens next, what ploy shall ensue? Then act out the rest. Repeat this but each time say "NO" a bit further along & see what comes next. Learn the ways of F. Eventually, U will win this Game. Keep'emPeeled.